Tuesday, August 12, 2008

Stavropol - Trip 2

We made it to Stavropol last night without any problems. We arrived at the San Francisco airport so early (3:15am) that we were the first in line to check in. We also opened the security line, as well as the breakfast cafe (by now 5am). By 6 we were on our way to Atlanta, and then on to Moscow. We had a nice lunch in Moscow at a hotel close to the airport and met our driver who took us to Vnukovo Airport on the other side of Moscow. Our coordinator met us there and flew with us to Stavropol. No sidetrips to Mineralnye Vody this time! We are staying at the Eurohotel again. It's quite warm in Stavropol (high 80's to low 90's) with some humidity. So the air conditioner in our room is a wonderful luxury.

On to the important stuff...

Wet met with our translator this morning and went to the orphanage to meet with the director there and to see M. Our meeting with the director was a review of M's physical history, plus an update with her most recent medical examination report. She is healthy! The director and our translator wanted to make sure that we were prepared to have M examined by all the right physicians when we come home. I reassured them that we would provide for all of her medical needs. Here in Russia, the medical system has about 6-8 different physicians that examine the children on a normal basis... neurologists, cardiologists, surgeons, eye specialists, speech specialists, etc. I tried very hard to convey that even though we would only be seeing one or two doctors at home, that if we needed to see a specialist we definitely would.

After we signed the medical report we were taken to see M. Since we last saw her she was moved to the older baby room. She was in the playpen with the other babies when we arrived. She was standing, holding herself up by the rails of the playpen. They whisked her away and dressed her in a disposable diaper and a lightweight dress for our visit. She is still the happy baby that we met two months ago, except that in that period she broke through 5 (FIVE!) teeth! Her hair is a little longer, and is starting to get a wave to it. She looks so great!

The new baby room that she is in is the same size and layout as the previous room, but with only one large playpen. In this new room the babies are taught to feed themselves with a spoon (I watched them feed M a whole bowl of mashed potatoes, vegetables, and ground meat for lunch), they drink from a cup (no more bottles), and they sit for a long time on their little potties after eating. I can't believe that these little 10+ month babies will actually sit still on their potties, but they do. It's like a little potty party in the middle of the room. After the babies were fed, one of the caregivers joined them and entertained them while they sat. We didn't have to watch M on the potty, thankfully. It was already hard watching them hold her hand with a spoon and feed her with it. They don't waste any time between spoonfuls, either. I can't wait to bring her home and let her stay a baby for as long as she needs.

It was a wonderful visit, albeit short. We will get to visit with her for longer tomorrow. Tomorrow we also begin our preparations for court, which is two days, Thursday and Friday. We suspect that we will not have our 10-day waiting period waived, because our coordinator mentioned that the death of the adopted Russian baby boy in early July is on the minds of everyone here. But we are still hoping.

6 comments:

Deb said...

I've been praying for your safe arrival. So glad to hear you are there and have seen your daughter. 5 teeth! Wow!

Can't wait to see pictures up here in a few weeks once it's all official. Enjoy your visit tomorrow.

Maggie said...

I'm glad you made it safe and sound and were able to see M already. It's amazing how quickly they start transitioning the kids to potty time and feeding themselves. I guess when they have so many kids to care for (and don't have tons of money for diapers) it's necessary.

I'll keep my fingers crossed for the 10-day waiting period being waived. Let's hope!!!

Ronda said...

Glad to hear you're safe and sound with your little M. Good luck with court. Spending those ten days with our kids really helped their transition. If you can't get it waived it won't be all bad but fingers crossed for you here too.

Ronda

monicalrobbins said...

So glad to hear everything is going well so far and that your baby is healthy. I'll be praying that court goes well and just maybe the 10 day waiting period will be waived. I can't describe how it feels to hear you write about Stavropol. I hope we make it there,too, to pick up our little guy. I don't know what orphanage he is in. I guess there are lots of them! Enjoy your time with your baby!

ipm said...

what an amazing trip so far... five teeth!!! glad those came through in Stavropol... :)))

sending you love, prayers and hope for a good court session, and as for the waiting period... again, our love and prayers are with you all...

Rachael said...

Glad you had a safe trip and best of luck at court!